Boudoir Session

-Posted by +Raven

This is Mandi. Mandi is beautiful. Mandi is strong. Mandi is awesome.

So are you.

One of the things I love about shooting boudoir is something I’ve said time and time again. Women {and young girls, for that matter} don’t feel beautiful enough. {And I’m not saying I’m immune, either.}

We, in general, do not take the time to stop and realize how amazing and strong and gorgeous we are.

It’s simply about being good to yourself in every way possible, because if you aren’t, who will be?

Do you remember that really cheesy character named Stuart Smalley from Saturday Night Live, back in the early 90′s? Every morning, he said, he would look in the mirror and tell himself “I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggone it, people like me.” And though that character is silly, having a self-affirming moment {even just once a day} is so wonderfully powerful. I don’t know why more people don’t do it.

You may have noticed that, if LeahAndMark.com were to have a catchphrase, it would be “You. Are. Awesome.” It’s the same idea. You read that statement at the end of every blog post from LeahAndMark. I read that statement. The people who write the blog read that statement. You need to be told that you’re awesome, and wonderful, and SO cool. And it’s not anyone else’s job to tell you. It’s yours.

I love shooting boudoir because, when it’s done correctly, it makes you feel beautiful. And sexy, and everything you feel you’re not when you’re having a bad day.

These shots are more than a present to your significant other. These shots are more than a really fun time. These shots are a love letter to yourself.

And you need to read that letter. Every. Single. Day.

You. Are. Awesome.

 

 

-Posted by +Raven

 

Atlanta. Boudoir. Photography. Photos. +Raven. LeahAndMark.com

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  • 12 April, 2011 - 10:18 am

    Laura Eliza - Beautiful work! Boudoir at it’s finest. And, the words are so true.ReplyCancel

  • 12 April, 2011 - 10:29 am

    Paralee - Raven, these are wonderful. Mandi, you look gorgeous in every single picture. What an awesome way to express your awesomeness :) ReplyCancel

  • 12 April, 2011 - 11:19 am

    Marj - So beautiful! I absolutely love the last one of Mandi under the sheet and part of why I love it is the arm extended towards the camera.ReplyCancel

  • 12 April, 2011 - 1:55 pm

    Jessica - Fabulous photos, Raven, and a very important and inspiring post!ReplyCancel

WoW Player Alex | The Interview

Alex used to play World of Warcraft but then he stopped. In his own words, “I’m a winner, it’s what I do.” - Interview & Photos by +Raven

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A friend of mine told me he started playing this video game, and that I needed to play with him. And I did. And I got addicted. Within the first 24 hours. Yeah, it was really, really bad. I started playing and I didn’t stop. For months and months and months. That was 6-7 months ago. And now I don’t play anymore.

My family hated it with a passion. It took up family time; I never had time for anything else.

Basically, all of the bad guys would attack me, and I would keep their focus while everybody else did the damage to the group while the healer kept me alive. I had the most health and protection in the group. They’re the badasses. They’re completely snotty, kind of human, but high-class humans. They think they’re better than everybody else. I think I’m better than everybody else. I tend to be pretty straight-forward, and I’m a pretty big guy.

Obviously.

I had a warlock; he was an affliction warlock. I would cast these spells that did damage over time. I had a night elf druid; he was a healer. Night elf so I could get a Nightsaber, which is a tiger that you ride. Night elves are good, blood elves are bad. Night elves are purple skinned, one with the earth. Blood elves are snotty; all they want is to reap the rewards, and don’t give a crap about the environment or anything.

My first character’s name was Alexian. So stupid. I hated that name.

I love the game, but of course, it made everything else really strained. I never got to hang out with my friends, and my parents were really pissed off at me. I was always in my room. They didn’t like it too much. They think it’s for losers. Because it’s a video game where there are dragons, warlocks, dragons, magicians, and warriors, stuff like that. It goes along with the whole idea of Dungeons & Dragons, which has never been cool. Neither is World of Warcraft; it’s not “cool.” Everybody automatically gets this picture in their head. I mean, you don’t think of an Abercrombie model playing World of Warcraft, you think of a big guy sitting in his chair eating potato chips with his headset on.

I think we definitely should own guns. Right to bear arms. I love guns; I’ve been shooting my whole entire life. Granted, I was raised in the South, so it’s a part of life.

Absolutely. I think more hours are spent on Facebook every day than World of Warcraft, easily. Games like Farmville and Mafia Wars. I get tons of Farmville requests every day. But I’ve never played any of those games. You can put yourself in that reality instead of going out and having to do something physically.

When people abbreviate shit that doesn’t need to be abbreviated. Before PacSun was called PacSun, it was called Pacific Sunwear. Now people call it PacSun. It really pisses me off. There’s a restaurant called El Sombrero. People call it El Som. It’s not called El Som, it’s called El Sombrero. Oh, and fake people. I hate posers. And haters. I can’t hate anyone. Hating takes too much energy.

No. There was never a balance. It was either all World of Warcraft or none. I would take breaks, month or two month long breaks. It was either hardcore the entire way or none.

I had 15 characters. I had 3 mains.

Gainesville State College for Biological Sciences. Crime scene investigation. Because I like solving mysteries and issues. Watching TV. I was always really good at figuring out whodunit. I weightlift a lot. I chill with my friends. I like to chill - chill with my bros. I do what an 18 year old dude does. I work and chill with my friends. That’s it. And weightlift. That’s my hobby.

A panther. Because of Sex Panther. Panther or cougar. No, I’m being completely serious. Or a Neapolitan Mastiff. Fang from Harry Potter? Neapolitan Mastiff. Purple. ‘Cause it’s bro. ‘Cause it’s chill.

That’s what she said.

I was a loser. Freshman year, I was pretty popular. After that, it went downhill. I started playing World of Warcraft.

My name is Alex. I’m a winner. It’s what I do.

WoW Player Caleb | The Interview

I’m Caleb. I’m 18. And I play World of Warcraft.

I used to play another MMO, and I kept hearing about WoW, and then eventually I migrated over and met a lot of cool people and just kinda stuck with it.

MMO is short for MMORPG which is a massively multi-player online role-playing game.

It’s very silly. A lot of MMOs get really dark and you have to kill all these people and everybody’s dead; WoW is just, it’s more fun. It’s not as dark and terrible, but it can still be dramatic.

Some of the people. Because they act like a bunch of asshats.

He is a level 85 orc shaman. I picked a different race, but he was in another faction, so I decided to switch to horde, which is what I’m playing now, and it just appealed to me. I was playing on a different character and I saw one run up to something and he hit it and a huge tornado erupted from it and I was like “that was really cool.” And I stuck with it because I like the totems. A totem is these things a shaman can make appear and each one does something different, like there’s a water totem, a manna totem that restores your manna. I’ve got a whole bunch of different totems. You’ve got one for every element.

I have 11. This one’s named Choup, thinner than chowder, thicker than soup – this one because I decided to make a funny character.

Medeas. No, a lot of these names I did make up, but not this one. The game picked a name for me. I was just starting and he was one of my first, so, I wasn’t that creative yet.

They’re all like a different aspect of myself. He’s really funny and nice, like me, and he can be a jerk. He’s helpful, but a jerk, at times.

Here’s a level 1 character I have. You start the game and there’s an opening cinematic thing that introduces you to the race you’re playing, and their little backstory. Then you get an opening quest, you complete that quest, and a completed quest gets you rewards, like money, armor, and weapons. It also gives you experience. Once you get a certain amount of experience, you’re the next level. It takes more and more quests to level up the higher and higher you get.

I’d say so. I wouldn’t say I had that last year, and by last year I mean 2009, but before that I was playing too obsessively. Then I kind of burnt out and didn’t play at all. Then I came back, and you have to have other things to occupy your time.

There’s just so much you can do. And you make lots of good friends and you only know them through the game, so maybe you’ll log in just to chat, not to actually play, just to have good conversations.

You know, it’s for nerds and people who have no life. But that’s not true, because there’s such a wide variety of people who do play WoW. It’s not just people living in their mother’s basement. People seem to see it in a negative light. Like, “people get too obsessed and spend too much time on it; they need to go out and live life”, and all that. You just have to keep one part from the other.

They’re stupid. If anything, it would probably deter violence, because if you’re taking out all of your aggression on a video game, you’re probably not going to be as angry in real life. I’ve read really good arguments, and lots of people seem to think that “it’s like a murder simulator,” not Wow but other video games, because WoW’s not that violent. “I’m shooting lightning bolts at someone; I’m going to go shoot lightning bolts at someone in real life.” It doesn’t translate. It’s ignorant people who don’t play video games in the first place who think video games equal real life when it’s not like that at all. But then there are people who get arrested and they’ll say “Grand Theft Auto made me do it.” No, they’re just looking for an excuse, a way to get out of what they’ve gotten themselves into. I can almost guarantee that those people would have committed those crimes whether they played Grand Theft Auto or not.

Well, people aren’t allowed to own guns in England, but criminals still have guns. It doesn’t take the guns out of the hands of the people who shouldn’t have them, it just makes the people who might need them to protect themselves makes it illegal for them to have them. Bad guys are going to have weapons no matter what the law says, because they don’t follow the law anyway. Even the cops don’t have guns, in England, and I think that really puts more lives in danger than it needs to. I think that would be a mistake here in the states.

Being Human, Castle, Doctor Who, Dexter, Eureka. I’m not big on vampires. Firefly, Stargate.

Most video games are escapes, because life can suck sometimes, and you might want to go ride on a dragon. Or steal a car from an old lady.

I’ve made some really good friends in WoW.

Read, play other video games. Little Big Planet 2, Gran Turismo 5, Halo.

I’d like to have my own house, family and junk: average. I’d like to not have a job, but have lots of money.

I like lots of animals. I like penguins, wolves, lions, bears. Not a fan of tigers. Everybody likes tigers. Narwhales, I love narwhales. They’re the unicorns of the sea.

“The only sovereign you can allow to rule you is reason.” That’s from the book Faith of the Fallen by Terry Goodkind. It makes me think, don’t always believe what people tell you. Because another one is, “Given proper motivation, almost anyone will believe almost anything. Because people are stupid, they will believe a lie because they want to believe it’s true, or because they’re afraid it might be true.” That’s also Terry Goodkind.

Probably 4-5. I spend most of my day on the Internet.

I think the future will be pretty much the same, but with better graphics.

People who use the word virtually when they mean literally. And literally when they mean virtually, too. Like, “you literally have to become one with the plane.” No, you don’t.